HOW TO GET OVER A BREAK UP

Getting over a broken relationship is not as easy as it seems. It weighs you down especially when you and your ex have come a long way.
You tend to do things that you don’t do before which are of no benefit to you, such as, drinking, smoking and so on. Keep in mind that getting over a break up takes time and patience. Most importantly keep away or rather be cautious about rebound relationship. You might feel you need someone to fill in the space of your ex.
The following are the possible helpful ways to get over break up

• Accept the pain: accept the pain that you are going through is normal. It is normal to feel neglected and feel you will be going back to being lonely. You start having different thoughts, you starting thinking of what people will say especially your family and friends. It is ok to feel the pain.
• Go ahead to grieve the loss: at this moment you embrace your pain. Really it is funny to grieve the loss of someone who is not dead but it is acceptable for quick recovery. You can go ahead to crymuch as you want, it is normal.
• Surround yourself with people that makes you happy: there are families and friends that are ready to accept you in your situation, encourage you and make you feel happy. This set of people makes you feel excited always whenever you are with them. Mix with them, go out with them and feel happy like never before
• Change your routine: there are some certain things you do together with your ex. Try some other activities, engage in something new that will improve you positively. Attend functions like birthday parties, wedding, and book launch and so on. 
• Let go: you have to accept that it is over, Most importantly, don’t ever try or think of going back to force the relationship on your ex. If you have to force it, it does not worth it. If it is meant to be you don’t have to force it.  Practice the act of letting go, you need to move on. Remember you cannot change the decision of your ex but you can decide how to respond. You have to be optimistic, see it has an opportunity for better things to come. Letting go and moving on is sometimes hard but sometimes necessary.

Above all, start communicating with God in prayers. Start believing that, if God can take away something you’ve never expected loosing, He can replace it with something you’ve never imagined having. Believe that one day God will send someone to your life who will make you realize why it never worked with anyone else. Stay strong always! 💪


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